Awakened Women Reclaiming Their Power in Love & Relationships
Women all over the world are awakening, rising and reclaiming their power when it comes to love and relationships.
Awakened women are remembering their worth, not settling for bare minimum in relationships any longer and choosing to stay single until a healthy partner enters their life.
If men want relationships with conscious, heart-centred, secure women the cost of entry will be to learn how to be a caring partner and reciprocate the love she gives. Men need to step up into their healthy masculine energy or be okay with awakened women rejecting them because they are focused on their growth, healing and are done being undervalued, used and disrespected.
This is the divine feminine rising and restoring balance in a patriarchal world.
No Longer Tolerating Red Flags
Awakened women are speaking up for their needs, speaking out loud their desires, and not setting them aside to appease a man. Women are respecting themselves, honouring their boundaries, not self abandoning, over-giving or people pleasing to receive a man’s love and devotion. No self sacrificing for the comfort of others or shrinking to be accepted any longer.
Awakened women are tired of being arm candy, therapists, mommies, maids, & managers to their partners. These women want mature, grown men who cherish and honour the divine feminine, who are ready to step up as a true partner in life and view their woman as their lover, goddess & answered prayer.
You may wonder, why has this taken so long for women to make this shift? Some of our female ancestors had to tolerate awful behaviour and treatment from their husbands because they had no choice! They relied on men for survival since women could not work, open their own bank accounts or get a mortgage.
One of the best things that happened for women’s empowerment was being able to earn their money and have jobs and careers, so women don’t have to be with a man because they are dependent on him for survival. Now they can choose to be with him because they want to. They don’t have to put up with the awful things their mothers and grandmothers had to silently accept.
Women reclaiming their power looks like very low tolerance of bad behaviour and red flags from men. Awakened women have sharpened their intuition, discernment and raised their standards. Awakened women can quickly spot red flags in men and they are protecting their peace and sanity by walking away from men who exhibit these qualities.
Red Flags:
Love bombing: Over-the-top affection and gifts very early on to gain control.
Jealousy and possessiveness: Getting upset when you talk to others or want alone time.
Controlling behaviour: Telling you what to wear, who to talk to, or how to act.
Disrespecting boundaries: Ignoring your "no," pushing physical limits, or invading privacy.
Gaslighting: Making you doubt your reality (“That never happened,” “You're overreacting”).
Anger issues: Explosive outbursts, road rage, or easily triggered aggression.
Lack of accountability: Never admitting fault; always blaming others (especially exes).
Criticism disguised as jokes: Making fun of you, then saying you’re “too sensitive.”
Inconsistent communication: Hot and cold texting, ghosting, or breadcrumbing.
Rushing intimacy: Pressuring for sex or commitment before trust is built.
History of cheating or lying: Especially if it’s not discussed with genuine accountability.
Addiction problems: Substance abuse issues that aren’t being addressed.
Talks badly about all exes: It’s a pattern, if “they were all crazy,” it’s probably not them.
Disrespect toward women: Misogynistic jokes, “alpha male” ideology, or demeaning comments.
Dismissive of your goals: Downplaying your dreams, career, or passions.
Avoids deep conversations: Emotionally unavailable or unwilling to talk about feelings.
Has different core values: Major misalignments on family, politics, religion, etc., that matter to you.
Doesn’t respect your time: Always late, cancels last-minute, or expects you to work around him.
Awakened women are no longer settling for men that won’t do their own inner work to be safe, supportive and self aware partners.
If you are a women who is reading this and judging yourself because you entertained men with several red flags from this list and blame yourself… just know growth is about seeing the red flags when they arise and removing yourself from the dynamic as soon as you can.
You will meet a variety of people and lots of people can put their best foot forward, but are not being fully authentic or honest at the start. However it is on you if you choose to stay once the red flags have been revealed.
2. New Standards For Life & Partnerships
Awakened women are creating beautiful, rich lives of inner peace, balance, fulfilling friendships, community, fun hobbies, fitness routines, education, travel and careers filled with purpose. They are pouring into themselves, creating lives they absolutely love and adoring their feminine essence.
Because awakened women have high standards for their own life, they now have a whole new set of standards for partnership & green flags they look for in a potential partner.
Green Flags:
Healthy communication: Listens actively, speaks honestly, and works through conflict calmly.
Respectful of boundaries: Asks for consent, respects your no, and doesn’t push your limits.
Emotionally available: Willing to be vulnerable and talk about feelings.
Takes accountability: Admits when they're wrong and genuinely apologizes.
Supportive, not competitive: Celebrates your successes and uplifts you without jealousy.
Keeps their word: Follows through on promises and is consistent in behaviour.
Handles disagreements respectfully: Doesn’t raise their voice, insult, or withdraw affection as punishment.
Expresses affection in your love language: Pays attention to what makes you feel loved.
Encourages your independence: Supports your need for space, friends, hobbies, and personal growth.
Wants to grow: Open to feedback, therapy, self-improvement, or learning new perspectives.
Strong sense of self: Knows who they are and doesn’t rely on you to “complete” them.
Good relationships with others: Healthy friendships, respectful family dynamics (or healthy boundaries if not).
Respects all people: Kind to service workers, polite to strangers, non-judgmental.
Emotionally regulated: Doesn’t lash out when upset or blame others for their emotions.
Stable and responsible: Takes care of their health, finances, job, or education with maturity.
Aligned values: Shares your views on key issues (or at least respects them deeply).
Open-minded: Willing to consider new ideas, hear your perspective, and grow together.
Shows long-term interest: Talks about the future with you, plans things ahead.
Mutual effort: You’re not the only one reaching out, planning, or checking in.
You feel safe: Emotionally, mentally, and physically and you can truly be yourself without fear.
Awakened women are asking themselves “what does this man bring into my life?” And assesses which red or green flags he has before moving the relationship forward.
Another standard women are upholding is prioritizing self-love. They are learning how to celebrate their wins, hold compassionate space for their emotions, adore their bodies, prioritize joy & pleasure, speak kindly to themselves, accept their shadows, heal their trauma and even fall in love with their solo time, aka dating themselves!
Awakened women are realizing it’s easier to be in their peaceful, flowy, playful, feminine energy without a red flag man extracting their precious energy. They are empowered to create their own soft life. Then once they have done that, they want to protect it at all costs and only allow a partner who meets their standards and also protects their peace and feminine essence.
3. Remembering Women’s Inherent Value
Awakened women are remembering their inherent value. They have detoxed their minds from patriarchal conditioning which says their only value is birthing children, their paycheck, sex, cooking or cleaning.
If that is all a man values you for, he is missing the beautiful, soulful gift the divine feminine brings into his life.
The Value Women Bring to Relationships:
Empathy and emotional support: Create a space where both partners feel seen and understood.
Deep connection and bonding: Expressing feelings, listening actively, and creating closeness.
Encouragement and motivation: A supportive partner who believes in you and helps you grow.
Conflict resolution: Apologizing, discussing feelings, or initiating healthy dialogue.
Perspective and insight: A woman brings her own worldview, experience, unique thoughts, offering fresh takes, problem-solving skills, and emotional intelligence.
Accountability partner: Challenges you to be better, to reflect, to grow. Not through criticism, but through presence, encouragement and partnership.
Household partnership: Whether it’s sharing chores, finances, child-rearing, or planning daily routines a woman brings practical contributions that make a life together run more smoothly.
Social organization: Many women naturally handle or contribute to relationship-building with family, friends, and the wider community.
Health and well-being: Statistically, men in committed relationships live longer and have better mental and physical health, often thanks to a woman’s emotional presence and health awareness.
Unconditional love: When respected and loved in return, a woman often gives deeply emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Shared dreams and legacy: A woman might bring the desire and ability to build a future, a family, a legacy, or a life that reflects shared values and goals.
Divine feminine energy: Intuition compassion, playfulness, softness, trust, surrender & more. These qualities nourish their partner and encourage his masculine energy to rise.
4. Breaking The Cycle
Awakened women are breaking the cycle of staying in love that is a struggle.
No more asking yourself “how could I do better?” every time he hurts you.
Instead of trying to fix, change or heal a man, they now accept that is not their responsibility. It is not their job to help him grow when he is unwilling to take accountability and do the deep reflective work.
Every relationship is 50/50, and awakened women know they aren’t responsible for their partner’s character, actions and behaviour.
Instead of taking his cruel words or lack of effort to heart and feeling like they aren’t enough… awakened women let these men go because they know they are worthy of safe, conscious, reciprocal love in their life.
Now toxic love is left behind and women are learning to create safe, fulfilling love within themselves instead!
Breaking the cycle is ultimately realizing your power is about consistently choosing yourself no matter the stakes, including losing the misaligned relationship.
Are you an awakened woman who is ready to reclaim her feminine power, remember her inherent worth & raise her standards for the type of love that she allows into her life because she loves herself deeply?
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